I could be addicted to love. I'm starting to feel some toxic lover girl feelings as Im forging the new me? Normal? or codependency
Last updated on:2026-07-25T10:03:21+05:30
Am i addicted to love? navigating toxic feelings after a breakup
I could be addicted to love. I'm starting to feel some toxic lover girl feelings as Im forging the new me? Normal? or codependency
Last updated on:2026-07-25T10:03:21+05:30
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don't think i'd rush to label it as codependency. for me, i just stayed curious about whether i wanted THAT person or if i was chasing the high of falling in love. asking myself that changed a lot.
Okay. I'll give it time
when you say "toxic lover girl feelings," what does that actually look like for you? is it wanting a relationship again, or feeling like you need one to feel okay?
One example is my ability to crush on someone so easily that I don't even know
i relate to this more than i'd like to admit. after my breakup i realized i wasn't just missing him, i was missing the feeling of being chosen. once i saw that, i started being a lot gentler with myself.
I like that. It makes more sense when it's framed that way. Thanks
I feel the same way. I sought constant validation and was emotionally completely dependent on him.
It's feels like the hardest part to let go.
Right? Cause Im not ready to date. But the feeling remains
I’m having similar issues. each time I think I’m moving on the YEARN hits strong