hey im 17 I was in a on and off relationship with my ex for 3 months and I cant really do this no more I was handling non contact until she messaged me to let me know that shes with my best friend and dating him I feel so crappy I dont have it in me to move on I tried so so hard this is unbearable the most non contact I got was about 5 days I dont why I want her back so badly but these feelings just wont go down.
Last updated on:2026-07-28T02:18:03+05:30
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getting left is already painful, but finding out they’re with your best friend too? that’s a whole different kind of hurt. i remember feeling like my chest was caving in when my ex moved on fast, i couldn’t understand how they were okay while i was falling apart 💔
it genuinely feels really really bad I dont really have a lot of friends i can talk to abiut this hence why I use this app but im struggling at the moment
i know 5 days of no contact feels impossible right now, but i kept telling myself i didn’t have to heal forever, i just had to get through today. i had to stop checking for updates because every little thing reopened the wound.
I keep reopening the wounds by checking her profile
sorry you’re carrying all of this at 17. did she tell you she was with your best friend because she wanted you to know, or did you find out another way?
I found out through his brother