hello, I just downloaded the app and actually i don’t know what i am doing or if it will even help me….
i don’t know if someone is gonna read my message and reply..
It is been 36 days.
at the beginning he was very interestedand obsessed ,he asked me multiple times to go out and I refused… he kept trying and showed alot of effort for a whole year!!!!
a whole year he tries and gets rejected like 4 times
and then after i said yes
it was the happiest months of my life..
the caring, the chatting and the hang outs
it was my first time seeing a boy
but for him i know it was casual
then like after 4 months he got bored or something
he stopped checking on me, he took steps back, stoped telling me he loves me…
he postponed our dates for no reason
and when i told him i am mad and lets break up he said ok without even trying or explaining !!!!
he told me he is not in love with me any more and just left like that…..
I can’t process what just happened… he was obsessed with me literally he loved me and showed alot of effort !!!
I am still in a shock and can’t move on
Last updated on:2026-07-28T17:49:34+05:30
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sitting there wondering how someone who chased me so hard could suddenly act like i meant nothing. that switch messed with my head for months. 36 days is still so fresh, and i promise the shock doesn't last forever.
will he come back? i need my revenge
i feel played and cheap….
when someone goes from "i can't lose you" to "okay" without a fight, it's brutal.
did he ever tell you what changed before the breakup, or did he just slowly pull away until that final conversation?
he told me we have different life style and if i told him that I want a break up because i was sad then he is not gonna convince me or explain things to me as I requested this….
i told him all the couples we see for like 25 years can you imagine how many times they fought?
how many times they said they’re done?
he replied as (ok I understand but we are different)
like he was waiting for me to say it so he can finally leave…
i tried talk to him after saying i only said that because i was mad…
he told me that it didn’t change anything and he still wants a breakup as he is no more in love with me
keep going . you got this. the app helps . focus on yourself . ALWAYS
I’m sorry, that sounds terrible. It’s hard, but sometimes people just leave for no reason. Sometimes people change their mind. Focus on yourself. Remember, you are the prize.
even when his birthday came I celebrated him very good, I reserved us a nice restaurant and bought him a nive gift then he told me he loves me on his BD!!!
and he was telling me I am the right person for him and he want a future with me….
he told me I am the prettiest girl he ever saw…
how can he leave so easily?
do I deserve this?
i loved him very much he was the first person I go out with