She broke up with me on July 25th. Just two days later, I saw a story of her sleeping on a video call with a guy. The story was from a month ago—the exact same month she told me not to worry about him, saying they were just long-time friends and there was nothing between them.
Every single time I told her "if you need to talk, I'm here," she pushed me away, saying "no, I just need to cry." Yet at the same time, she was talking to him non-stop. When I wanted to listen and support her, she told me nothing. But with him, suddenly she could tell him everything.
When I brought it up back then, she ignored me. Today, I confronted her again with screenshots of her video call with him. Here is what she told me:
If I don't love you, then I don't love you. Do you want me to force myself to love you? I can't do that. Yes, everything you saw is because he understands me so damn well, and I am so damn confident about it. You can view me as bad as you want, but this past month I talked about everything and shared my pain with him, and I felt at peace. But with you, I don't feel that way anymore. I tried to go back to feeling the same as before, but it's not the same. I already love him. I was never with you for benefits, but if you want to think that I dumped you because you ran out of benefits to give me, go right ahead. Because in all this time, I never really asked you for a single thing; I even refused them
I have now blocked her. I feel completely betrayed
Last updated on:2026-08-01T12:34:39+05:30
Comments (11)
what a bitch
The part where they say "must I force myself to loveyou?" So how is it now forced? Where they pretending the whole time. That's hard to wrap my head around. My love was real and still is. Now he says he doesn't feel anything. How can someone just turn off their feelings? 😭
to be honest i think it was not love she like me a bit but not love
those screenshots would've broken me too. blocking her was probably the first thing i did that actually protected ME, because every new message just gave me another reason to hurt.
when she said she already loved him, did you get the feeling this had been building for a while, or did it honestly come completely out of nowhere to you
i kinda knew she was kinda distant with me talking less ect for the past month
i went through almost the same thing, the "don't worry about them" person ended up being the one they chose. the hardest part wasn't even the breakup, it was realizing i was trusting someone who had already checked out.
My ex and I broke up July 5th. Well he broke up with me due to anger and me and him have been dating for almost 7 years our 7th year anniversary was literally in two months but he decided to ended it. We are still friends but we are just supporting each other from the distance for now. I know it’s hurts and it will hurt for while but let God help you, pray to God to heal you. Trust in God’s plan and timing. I promise you this will get better. and I am so sorry that happened to you. I know how it feels 💔😭
hope it gets better
it is classic for the person who betrays us to try and act like we are the ones in the wrong. it makes it twice as cruel and I’m so sorry you’re going through this
thanks for your support Yes it hurt alot but gotta move forward