pls read my first post to get an idea of the dynamic/ breakup..
but whe didnt have contact for 2,5 months. then she reached out on my birthday.. pretty vularable.said she was thinking about me a lot. and she wasnt doing so well.. replied warm but not chasing.
after that silence again until our " aniversery" She put up a post on instagram. saying .. the strongest connections never died. they live in our hearts forever. with our song.
i didnt respond to that.
but what to make of all of this?
Last updated on:2026-08-01T03:20:12+05:30
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my ex used to come back with little breadcrumbs too, just enough to make me believe we still had a chance. i'd be lying if i said i didn't read into every single one of them. 💔
this is such a hard place to be. what helped me was paying more attention to what they consistently did than the meaning i hoped their messages had. it hurt, but it kept me grounded.
yes its hard. especially she does open up emotionally. but doesnt take the next step. and i refuse todo it for her.
i am dating a few other woman.. but its hard. since i do miss her a lot. i would go back to her. and i hate the fact i cant get her out of my mind.
before those 2.5 months of no contact, did she ever actually say she wanted to try again, or has it mostly been emotional messages that leave you guessing?
no, nothing. she just said that time was hard for her. but dont know more about this..