it's really hard to be with me because of my relationship OCD and my jealousy but he said it's okay and he will never give up. He promised it a lot that he will never leave even if I kept asking the same question 10 times a day. During the break up he said he did everything he could but he can do it anymore. How can I blame him? I'm trying to convince myself that if he really loved he would stay no matter what. Would he leave my house and look at me for the last time If he had really loved me ? sorry for my English, I'm not native speaker.
Last updated on:2026-08-02T17:35:44+05:30
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when he said he couldn't do it anymore, did he say it was only because of the reassurance and jealousy, or were there other things going on too?
other things too but the day before he said he will handle me and he will never leave
i feel this. i stopped asking myself "did they love me?" and started asking "what actually happened between us?" that question hurt less than fighting with every memory of their goodbye.
i kept asking for reassurance over and over too, and when my relationship ended i convinced myself that meant i was impossible to love. looking back, i know someone can love you deeply and still reach a point where they're exhausted.