Why am i dreaming about my ex after months?

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anyone else experience dreams after 4.5 months? i never had dreams anout him up until now. I mean waves of dreams all week. all I do is wake up sad and i only allow that saddness to be the take away so I dont break no contact. I just find it odd that I am all of a sudden having these dreams.

Last updated on:2026-08-03T18:15:26+05:30

Comments (6)

OwnCell54
OwnCell54 3 wks ago

i stopped treating the dreams like they meant i should reach out, because every time i did that i ended up back at square one. keeping no contact even when you wake up sad is something i wish i'd done sooner.

PetroPPDX
PetroPPDX 3 wks ago

luckily I have no desire to talk to him and no way for him to contact me other than email and he is prob not that smart lol

BrightChoice
BrightChoice 3 wks ago

were they mostly happy memories, or are they the kind that leave you feeling like the breakup just happened all over again?

PetroPPDX
PetroPPDX 3 wks ago

neither. he just randomly appears and nonchalantly makes a comment about not communicating in a while. or something random like he tries to hold my hand but I pull away and wake up. no meaning. just random.

Moanregr3t
Moanregr3t 3 wks ago

i didn't dream about my ex for months either, then out of nowhere it was every single night. i'd wake up missing someone i hadn't even thought about much the day before

PetroPPDX
PetroPPDX 3 wks ago

yea. I have no desire for him to be back in my life i know the difference between reality and the fantasy he sold.