Guys, I'm desperate. I’ve liked this guy since last summer. We met because he was into me, but then he got into a relationship. At the beginning of the year, they broke up, and in April, he messaged me on Instagram. From then on, we started hanging out and texting, but later he decided he didn't want anything anymore, so we ended it.
In June, we started hanging out and texting again. He kept asking me to be his girlfriend, but I didn't feel ready yet. Then, at the end of June, completely out of nowhere, he told me he didn't have real feelings for me, and I didn't reply. A week later, he told me he regretted it, but he never messaged me again after that.
sometimed I text him, but he only replies sometimes, though he did say he misses me a bit. Last week, he kissed me for the first time, but he says he doesn't want to be in a relationship, so we don't even text anymore. Last week we also hung out with other people, and he often came over to look for me. On top of that, on Thursday when we were at the same party, while I was talking he walked past behind me and imitated me with his friend (not in a mean way) and looked at me, but now I just don't know what to do."
help mee😭😭
Last updated on:2026-08-03T22:49:11+05:30
Comments (5)
when someone says they miss me but still doesn't want a relationship, i try to believe what they're doing more than the little moments that pull me back in.
if he asked you to be his girlfriend before but now says he doesn't have real feelings and doesn't want a relationship, what are YOU hoping will change that he hasn't already shown you?
've been caught in that same push and pull where every little sign made me think maybe this time would be different. i stayed because the mixed signals kept giving me hope, and that hope wore me out.
oh he seems like a guy that needs to work out his feelings and you don't deserve that two sided behavior. give him time and space. if he likes you he will contact you but if he acts like this set boundaries
Alright, thanks for the advice❤️