I really don’t understand anything at this point. The relationship with the new girl he’s with seems so forced and I wish I could just peak inside his mind. He’ll repost stuff on tiktok for her and later unrepost it, he used to post her on his story but delete it without it being up the full 24hrs (and I was also blocked from viewing his stories), and now he has a highlight dedicated to her, but once he made the highlight he turned his Instagram account to private. He’s still in my tiktok viewer history as well. I just don’t understand, it’s almost like he’s putting on a show and doesn’t want me to see and get hurt by it, but that just causes me to hurt more.
Last updated on:2026-08-03T19:55:12+05:30
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honestly, i had to stop trying to make sense of mixed signals because i could always find a story that kept me attached.
do you think he's actually sending you mixed messages, or is seeing all these little updates making it impossible for your mind to let go?
i drove myself crazy trying to decode every post, every delete, every little change after my breakup. i realized i was looking for answers from someone who wasn't giving them, and that hurt more than the breakup itself.