my wife decided counselling wasn't the answer and the only thing was a seperation at least for a little while I decided to I needed to protect myself and out of Grief and desperation I am buying a piece of land off my uncle to help start over (even though I still don't want to) my ex and I are still living in in the same house and we don't fight or anything and all was ok for a while but now the date is set for me to sign and buy the land and I'm now really sad and scared because it's all becoming real again and I don't know what to do.
Last updated on:2026-08-06T04:21:06+05:30
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i should have broken up a year back. when he cheated on me but i stayed for the financial safety atleast wat i tell myself but i wasnt really happy. its gonna be hard.
making big choices while a part of me was still hoping things would change. i had to remind myself that protecting my future didn’t mean i stopped loving the person i lost.
thanks for that 💜
when you think about buying the land, are you scared because you don’t want that new chapter, or because it feels like accepting that the old one might be ending
if I'm being honest both but more so I wond want the old chapter to end
talk to her again
when my separation became real, decisions hurt more than the actual talks because it felt like i was watching my old life slip away.
it's like losing 2 people at once . I feel exactly the same .