what does it call when your ex did claim he is the reason why you guys ended things and that he should have done better but in the end he is still the one who has the audacity to turn the table and make me the bad guy in the story? at first it was okay he was sorry and he actually keeps begging and texting me in my different social medias even I have already told him not to bother me again after our last talk. I already gave him my one last love grateful goodbye message. I chose to be loving and grateful when we broke up, when we had our last talk. I did not became aggressive on him with my anger and pain. So he begged and I just kept ignoring him because I was just protecting myself. This was like our 3rd time breaking up and I do not wanna keep going back to a guy who never really consistenly changes. But he felt angry in the end. I dont know why he has the audacity to be mad at me in the end. During the time he was begging he emailed me about wanting to kill himself. I tried to do an effort that was still also protecting myself. I contacted his friends and family about it, because I am worried and concern..I actually ended up breaking down on my own after that...I did that while not responding to him directly. But in the end I was still the bad guy. He even had the audacity to compare me with his friends who stayed and he even made friends again to the guy who used to do wrong and hurtful things on me that is why he cut that guy off on his circle but now they are friends and bonding again? I tried to have a closure with him with another one last talk after a month have passed and he rejected me and told me he is already okay with his current state and with our current state. That really hurt me because after everything I did, it seems like he was contented to really make me the bad guy on the story despite him being the reason why we broke up. He had the audacity to be so mad at me too like he even said dont I dare contact me again with a middle finger. How I wish I never came back at him. how I wish I didnt give and did everything to him that even my respect on myself were affected...
Last updated on:2026-08-07T15:21:26+05:30
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do you think he actually believed you were the bad guy, or was he angry because you finally stopped giving him another chance?
I dont know for sure but he really do acts like it. I saw his reposts before he really makes it look like I am the girl who just left him even he he did everything. He said how he wish I never came to his life if I am just gonna leave him and he even had the audacity to compare me with his friends, he has this repost about how he used to choose me over his friends before but guess what who stayed and he even made friends again with the guy friend we both have before that we already both cut off because of the unpleasant things that guy did to me. My ex is even the one who helped me realize that there really is something wrong with the guy but now they are besties again lol. Last week I broke my no contact rule and tried to talk to him again as an attempt for closure. As an attempt to have that kind of talk where we can tell each others' sides and find a way to end our chapter okay rather than full of pain and hatred. But he just rejected me and said He refuse to talk about it anymore because he is already okay with his state and our state. I got really mad and hurt because it felt like he was really contented about making me the villain in the story haha. I told him how unfair he is, and how I wish he is 'happy' for breaking me so much. I gave and did everything for that guy, it is not true that I decided to JUST left him. We were on and off because I keep coming back to him, I keep trusting, loving and opening my heart to him despite his betrayals and etc. The last talk we both had before I ended things I even chose to be loving and thankful to him rather succumbing to my pain and anger. Then thats just what he is gonna do to me after? it's exhausting..
i've been with someone who kept apologizing until they realized i wasn't coming back, then suddenly i became the villain too.
It sucks right? Most especially if u were just choosing yourself that's why you ended things...it hurts to break up with someone you still love and care so much just because you need to also love and care and choose your own self already because of how they are no longer good for u..I dont know why they are like that...maybe they just couldn't accept it yet? But the more they act as a victim, the more they feel better with it...I wonder if it is true, do they really feel better?