my ex and I have been separated for about a month now we are still staying in the same house although that is soon to change I believe but last night I left my YouTube open on the tv and this morning she saw all the videos I've been watching about trying to move on like some of them where titled what to do when she's moved on and stuff of that nature and she took it as me blaming her for everything and that I hate her and I definitely don't I love her more then anything and she says she hasn't moved on and that I think she's just doing great when she's actually hurting just as much (and I truly believe she is) but now feel terrible for hurting her yet again and I've never seen her this upset in the 11 years we where together ðŸ˜ðŸ˜“ I just don't want her to hate me I would still like to be friends with her if possible what should I do
Last updated on:2026-08-07T17:41:11+05:30
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my ex found something i'd been searching after we split and it turned into a whole story that wasn't even true. when you're both hurting, it's so easy to read fear into everything. 💔
i'd probably tell her exactly what you told us. those videos weren't about blaming her, they were me trying to survive the breakup. that's the kind of thing i wish i'd said sooner instead of letting shame do the talking.
i'm really sorry, 11 years is such a huge part of your life. 😔 has she actually said she doesn't want to be friends anymore, or is that fear filling in the blanks right now?