Why am i still in love with him even after the breakup?

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it doesnt feel fair that I have no choice in this matter. I HAVE to push my feelings away and stop loving him. I HAVE to get on with life. this is all out of my control and it sucks that he put me in this impossible position.

Last updated on:2026-08-10T20:56:12+05:30

Comments (6)

NowuHaveIt1
NowuHaveIt1 a mth ago

i hated hearing “you need to move on” because my feelings didn't disappear just because the relationship did.

Dizzyrose
Dizzyrose a mth ago

the worst part was knowing i still loved him while having to accept that loving him couldn't change what he'd chosen. that helpless feeling is brutal

delicusbite1
delicusbite1 a mth ago

you think the hardest part right now is losing him, or having no say in whether the relationship gets another chance?

miles
miles a mth ago

i feel you and so many others here on this app do too. It hurts especially since we all have to accept it's out of our control. we can only control how to move forward. It's okay to be hurt though, I am too. I didn't have a choice he left me. Idk your whole situation but i do know surrounding and having support of others in your life will help.

GlitchFox415
GlitchFox415 a mth ago

I sometimes do cry and just feel like I'm not worth love

Rayvenn907
Rayvenn907 a mth ago

I end up crying every single day after breakup & it sucks. Forcing myself to forget him as he moved on instantly as soon as his arrange marriage got fixed. I fell in love with the person that never loved me....It's painful & heart renching 💔