He was so gentle, he made me a jar with 100 reasons why he loves me, he bought me a promise ring, a lot of flowers, he came to my campus just to see me ( 3 hours driving) he talked to me when I needed it, even when it was night. And still he left me when things got hard. He promised he will handle my OCD but he gave up on us. He said he will come back to me in a year but I know it's a lie. He blocked me. I don't want to check his profile if he writes to another girl. I know I wasn't perfect but I really tried to fix it and I told him I can change my behaviour during breakup but he said it's too late.
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I have been in a relationship for a year and allΓ started because of him, at first he was sure he liked me and I wasn't because I was scared of losing him (we had been Friends for 3 years before the relationship), he tried to kiss me first, he insisted, he asked me out, he wanted to have sex with me, he showed me he loved me in all posible ways, he came to surprise me at school, he gave mi letters made by hand, he allways remembered me that I was beautiful and that I deserved everything and after a year, while we were doing a picnic he told me he was gay. I was shocked, he started crying and telling me he hates himself and that I should also hate him for doing this to me and I didn't say a word, I just told him that It was okay and that I wasn't going to leave and he told me to be in no contact for a while. I was in shock for like 3 days and after that I had a lot of questions, I wanted to understand everything and to ask him all the questions I couldn't asked him in that moment so I texted him just a question and he answered. Days later I could only thing if he had cheated on me and that's how he realized that he was gay so I asked him and he was quite rude to me and I didn't get an answer. I don't blame him for anything because he was an amazing boyfriend and still is an amazing man but he left when I finally trusted him, when I was completly in love. I wish I could hate that man because It would make this process ten times easier but I can't because all he did wasn't a lie, he did it because he trully though he loved me that way. So here I am, three weeks later trying to figure out how to deal with this situation and how to leave without the man I am in love with and the one who I got used to have in my life and be my safe place.
someone loved me so loudly with flowers, little notes, and all those big gestures, losing them made me think nobody would ever love me like that again.
A lot of men can make promises but do they actually keep them? if he truly loved you he would have stayed even when things get hard, you definetly deserve better and a true man thatβs going to stick my your side
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ugh, the βiβll come back in a yearβ part wouldβve kept me stuck too. i had to stop waiting for a promise and start getting through one day without checking their profile.
so he's lying?
youβre missing him as a person right now, or the way he made you feel loved and chosen?