hii everyone
45 day of NC for me today,
happend a lot since last two weeks, been pn vacation, enjoying, helped me to forget a bit, I had intimacy with other guys and I felt really good. Not meaning I forgot completely, but yk. When I finally thought that it’s gonna be alright, my phone got stolen so I lost almost all photos even with him, maybe it was ment to be maybe not, but I don’t care mostly about the photos with him, it’s like these past two years I didn’t exist.
Hope everoyne is doing better xx
Last updated on:2026-09-01T23:40:46+05:30
Comments (6)
you look back now, do you feel like you’re finally starting to remember who you were before the relationship?
yes, I start to feel more good about myself
i’m really glad you had those moments where you felt like you were gonna be okay. i used to think feeling good after a breakup meant i was forgetting my ex, but eventually i realized i could still miss someone and have a genuinely good day.
thank you so much for this, yes, exactly, I can miss him but still have my day
45 days of no contact and suddenly realizing i could laugh, travel, meet people, and actually feel good again. losing those photos sounds rough, but i love that you’re starting to see there’s a whole life outside of those memories
yeah, at first I thought, that even after time it’s gonna be the same, like yeah, there are good days and also bad days but, I want to live again, not running my life around someone or memories