Am i just holding onto false hope for him?

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Its only been 10 days no contact and 2 weeks to the day since we broke up but I'm worried he'll never come back

I want so badly to hear from him, for him to call me and say he wants me back. Its all I want.

I can't see myself with anyone else, I keep imagining our life together when he comes back.

But I was the problem, I was the reason he left, no one leaves a controller to come back right?

Last updated on:2026-08-30T09:12:12+05:30

Comments (7)

Updown01
Updown01 3 wks ago

ten days is still so early and the part of you that wants him to call is loud as hell right now

Sukidado
Sukidado 3 wks ago

what does the controlling side of things look like when you think back on it, like was it mostly arguments or something quieter that built up?

twichyeye
twichyeye 3 wks ago

i was the same after mine left, sitting there counting days and replaying every fight like if i could just fix the controlling parts he'd magically walk back through the door. that hope felt like the only thing keeping me upright even when it was killing me.

DreamyHug889
DreamyHug889 3 wks ago

if he comes back will it give you temporary relief or permanent peace. if it's temporary relief and it's better he doesn't call you nd you heal with time and be strong

BrightSky366
BrightSky366 3 wks ago

don’t force him to want you. heal yourself and let the right man come to you

2xoxo2
2xoxo2 3 wks ago

Please remember, that you dont really want to be with someone that doesnt want you...
You deserve to be chosen.

jewel66
jewel66 3 wks ago

Never give up on your self