Why i'm done chasing: a lesson in reciprocity

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He came back and I ended up opening the door again for things between us.

However, this time I will not take the role of moving the relationship forward. I will wait for his concrete actions (not words - there have been already too many words without any action).

If he does not act, I won't either, so in that case I might well forget about him.

Last updated on:2026-09-01T10:31:11+05:30

Comments (4)

af2236
af2236 2 hrs ago

i’ve been there, giving someone another chance and realizing i was still the one carrying the whole relationship. waiting for actions instead of promises saved me from repeating that cycle.

BopZap196
BopZap196 9 hrs ago

good luck and keep putting yourself first

urgel1
urgel1 10 hrs ago

i'm proud of you stranger❤️😀

JunoNote3
JunoNote3 9 hrs ago

thanks💖