When love turns to hate: my journey to self-rediscovery

Hi, when she left me I was really hurt and thought I couldn't live without her, that's what I thought until a few hours ago. That's what made me change my mind and It makes me understand that I don't want her anymore. It's a simple photo, where she was sleeping with another woman the very night I asked her to sleep with me. I spent that night crying while she hugged another quiet girl, I hope just sleeping honestly, BUT never say never. This post is to tell you that no one deserves your tears, your pain, and that all that suffering will pass and you will be able to find the light as before.
I can now say that my heart feels much lighter, always believe in yourself and value yourself, don't let someone else put you down.🫰❣️

Last updated on:2026-09-03T04:18:53+05:30

Comments (8)

Rexfire3
Rexfire3 3 wks ago

the part where you spent the night crying while she was with someone else is what does it. once that image is in your head it becomes impossible to keep begging for the same person. keep sitting with that clarity, it gets stronger the more you protect it.

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 3 wks ago

Exactly, you explained something inexplicable. But that's exactly what I felt.

Updown01
Updown01 3 wks ago

ugh that photo must have hit like a truck. i remember the exact second i saw my ex with someone else the same night i needed him most, and something just snapped inside me too. that lighter feeling you're describing right now is real.

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 3 wks ago

Yes, that photo hit me straight to the heart, but it also gave me the reason to find the strength to move on and understand that he wasn't the right person. Now I realize that when she ended the relationship she only gave me the peace I deserved and needed after so much time spent suffering.She ended our love but also my condemnation by being with a person like her.

wishingera
wishingera 3 wks ago

how did you even come across that photo a few hours ago?

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 3 wks ago

It was the end of August and when I saw a friend's bump she posted that photo of them sleeping together and that completely changed my mind.

GoodDay485
GoodDay485 3 wks ago

thats so True

ChillFlow392
ChillFlow392 3 wks ago

🫂