so my birthday is coming (its september 19th). my ex boyfriend did a lot of plans for that day and we broke up like a week ago. The day after we broke up when we meet for the last time we had a conversation like this
ex:i made something for your birthday yk
me:oh what is it
ex:its like a book with your photos printed and the paragraphs about how much i love you and what i felt about that photos
me:oh i wish you had brought it with you today
ex:🙂
and then four days later we had an argument (before that argument we were just casually speaking and telling how much we missed each other and he said "what do you want for your birthday") he unfollow me on every social media
i dont want anything from him actually i really want to see the book he made for me or the plans he did (he was saying he booked a tablet from a luxury restaurant in our city and he will take his moms car just for me etc.) but deep down in this circumstances a little text from him saying "happy bday" is enough for me and it would really make my day yk
Last updated on:2026-09-03T13:02:33+05:30
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Darling, I think that a birthday is someone's day, and you should spend that day with those who really love you: friends, family, workmates or schoolmates.Don't let anyone ruin it. Not a single day of your life should you depend on someone for things they should and unfortunately don't do. You're very strong, know that, I respect you. when it's your birthday remember this comment and think I'll wish you a happy birthday 🫰❣️
awww thank you so mucchhh i really appreciate your comment. 💗🫶🏻😭
Babe don’t let someone’s absence overshadow your special day
thank you so much girl but i cant help myself
what helped me get through mine was planning something small with a friend so i wasn't just sitting there staring at the clock waiting for a notification. even if that text comes, it rarely gives you the closure you're hoping for, so try to make the day about treating yourself instead.
yeah i will celebrate it for like 2 days nonstop but i would still wait for a message i guess
are you going to be around close friends or family on the 19th, or are you mostly going to be on your own that day?
with my friends and also with my familu
my birthday was a week ago, I have to be honest with you. Don't give power to this thought because it can steal your birthday. I had the same desire, it didn't happen but the week before my birthday I really fought with hope and my birthday was actually pretty good. Did I feel the hurt? of course, I love him but it didn't steal my day away from you. So, he could but don't put all your hopes in one basket.
oh thank you so much i will but i cant help the feelings that coming out of my mind i really want him to celebrate it
i did the exact same thing holding out hope that he would still send that one text or hand over the gift he made. waiting by your phone on your actual birthday when you just broke up is a whole different level of painful.
did he celebrate it
and i am wondering will he celebrate it?