Should i send him cookies after the breakup?

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i made a huge batch of cookies... im thinking of sending him some without actually chatting him. maybe through his friend? ive always wanted to bake for him :(

Last updated on:2026-09-06T21:43:11+05:30

Comments (14)

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

i gave him the cookies and bread and flowers without any expectations waaaaaaa

20keptic0
20keptic0 2 wks ago

i'd probably send them too if i were in your shoes, so what are you hoping you'll feel if he gets them?

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

nothing honestly im just so used to sharing with him anything i make. :( i was making them with thoughts of him so i wanted to give him some :(

CozyCloud485
CozyCloud485 2 wks ago

@iamsad what if you give them to someone else close to you. do you have anyone?

BigBird
BigBird 2 wks ago

if sending them through his friend is going to leave you staring at your phone wondering if he got them or what he thinks, you might end up hurting yourself more than you expect.

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

if i just send it without any expectations? :(

IamZeebo
IamZeebo 2 wks ago

i used to find little excuses to do something sweet for my ex because part of me just wanted to still feel connected to him. i know how much those cookies can mean when you made them with him in mind.

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

yeah exactly i dont know if i should send him some :(

CozySoul437
CozySoul437 2 wks ago

how do you guys break up

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

on mutual terms. we decided to break up after 8 years together and living for 7 years together so that in there comes a time in the future we can still be together :( no resentments or hate we still both love each other so much but our habits are eating us both alive

CozySoul437
CozySoul437 2 wks ago

@iamsad what kind of habits

KindWishes384
KindWishes384 2 wks ago

no , share the cookies with friends ♥️

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

but he's my best friend :(

CozyCloud485
CozyCloud485 2 wks ago

@iamsad I feel you on that 😭 but has he recently sent you anything??