Why do i keep calling my ex's voicemail?

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its my second day of breaking up with them and I still call them just to hear their voice mail because its slowly fading already. im so scared to forget their voice.... is it just me? please dont tell me im weird and I need to stop before I get even more hurt

Last updated on:2026-09-08T22:36:12+05:30

Comments (4)

MindlessTurn
MindlessTurn 2 wks ago

you’re not weird at all. i remember needing little pieces of my ex around me just to get through those first few days, and i eventually stopped needing them when the panic settled down a bit. you don’t have to force yourself to stop before you’re ready.

Contract2
Contract2 2 wks ago

when you listen to their voicemail, does it make you feel comforted for a little while, or does it leave you feeling worse afterward?

ojiankido
ojiankido 2 wks ago

i did something really similar after my breakup. i kept replaying old voice notes because i was terrified that one day i’d wake up and their voice wouldn’t feel familiar anymore. day two is SO fresh, please be gentle with yourself

iamsad
iamsad 2 wks ago

i get you :( i wish i could do that as well but im too scared