Hello, hipe everyone here is doing better.
I want to ask a question, cause I am an anxious type of person and I would like to by told by someone from Avoidant side.
How to know, when they are trully done with you? What will they do?
I am in really confusing situation and would like a clarity, know it’s invidual.
Thank you for your answers
Last updated on:2026-09-08T17:37:12+05:30
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i learned that trying to decode an avoidant person kept me stuck way longer than i needed to be. for me, their consistent actions mattered more than whether they pulled away and came back again.
i feel like there’s a specific situation behind this question. what has your person been doing lately that’s leaving you so confused?
like he still has our photos on his socials, still has our shared album and photos in gallery, din’t block me anywhere, keeps posting sad love songs (about wanting back a person he hurt) on his CF on instagram, listening to these same songs on youtube, his last contact to me was kind and flirty (calling me nicknames and that I am always beautiful), before he was talking about visiting me/me visiting him, he send me a job offer in his country before we went to this NC, idk makes me confused
i’ve been on the anxious side too, and i remember obsessing over every little change because i thought there had to be a clear sign they were done. it made me read way too much into silence, distance, even tiny things.