Why can't i stop thinking about her?

About a week ago I had managed to move on, to not think about her anymore, or so I thought.These days I've started thinking about her again, as if I wanted to get back together. I know this is all wrong, and that she's not the right person for me, but I can't find myself with anyone else.I don't know what's happening to me, one day I don't care anymore, and the next day I think about it 24/7. 😩😩😩

Last updated on:2026-09-08T20:07:37+05:30

Comments (10)

faintedPie
faintedPie 2 wks ago

i remember feeling like i could never want anyone else after my ex. when you say you can’t find yourself with anyone else, do you think you actually want her back, or do you miss the feeling of having someone who was yours?

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 2 wks ago

I think I mean I want her by my side again, it's like I'm refusing to have anyone else near me

FailingIt
FailingIt 2 wks ago

hat awful feeling of thinking you were finally okay and then suddenly missing her again like you’re right back at the start. i used to think every bad day meant i had undone all my progress, and that made the thoughts even louder.

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 2 wks ago

Exactly, I'm always trying to finish my day but it feels like something isn't complete. It's always awful.

liusSattaro
liusSattaro 2 wks ago

I get it, but we cannot really control what really has happened. best we could do is move on, whether the break up was in good terms or not

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 2 wks ago

I know you're right but it's so difficult, it's like there's a war inside me and everyone's fighting against me but no one knows who will really have the upper hand.

liusSattaro
liusSattaro 2 wks ago

@BuzzFlex369 we all have that war inside us, whatever we feel is valid. Even I also am fighting my urgest to reach out, but whats done is done. The problem is how toxic she is that shes constantly trying to ruin my image to gain an audience

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 2 wks ago

@liusSattaro You're absolutely right, but I can't forget how good it made me feel, and that goodness goes beyond the toxicity and how bad it made me feel.

joeybarri15
joeybarri15 2 wks ago

I miss her so much, i just wish i even had those days of not caring but i literally dream abt her and just think abt her all day and can’t break my focus. I wanna grow and mature without her but i think i relied too hard on her

BuzzFlex369
BuzzFlex369 2 wks ago

It's like growing up without her I'm not really growing up