Can someone please give me some advice on how to let him go?
Last updated on:2026-09-09T22:55:12+05:30
25 days post-breakup: why can't i let him go?
Can someone please give me some advice on how to let him go?
Last updated on:2026-09-09T22:55:12+05:30
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i wanting so badly for the pain to stop that i kept looking for ways to forget my ex overnight.
when you say you can’t stop thinking about him, is it mostly missing him, or are you replaying what happened between you two over and over?
25 days is still so fresh. i've been there, waking up with that awful ache and thinking about my ex before i'd even fully opened my eyes. you don't have to be okay yet
it's best to try and let the little things go and taking it day by day instead of trying to cut it all off at once.Our mind needs time to adapt so give it the time it needs to heal and get comfortable in your current uncomfortable situation
you're right thank you 😊
so I broke up with him almost a month ago, and I also can’t stop thinking about him, but you can’t do anything, only aceptc that maybe it wasn’t meant to be, you can’t question yourself, you can’t ask yourself “what if”, “why”, and you need to allow yourself to feel, it’s okay to be sad, to cry, and take all the time you need to move on, 1,2,3 months, that doesn’t matter, let yourself feel so you can actually move on.
thank you for your support 💓💓
hey, I think first thing first you cant force yourself to be okay and not question yourself the “whys”. you will be in pain, you will be confused and you will be hurting. Because it meant the world to you. My advice is, just sink in it and feel whatever emotions you have in yourself. that is also act of self care. Sadness is meant to be felt not avoid. Eventually you will regulate, you will learn and you will survive. The pain wasnt meant to hurt you but it will help you. Remember to take care of yourself and eat well! you are not alone <3
Thank you so much girl, for your advice 😊💕
same but don't worry pray to God reach out to God Almighty He will help you heal.Remember He has the best plan for all of us.
you're right thank you 😊
the first step to moving on is to actually cry about it let it all out then write all the things that u miss about him and how he made u happy and after u get all of it out of ur chest write all the things he did bad and the good things that happened after u broke up even the smallest things will help
I wrote in notes on my phone EVERY bad thing he did to me. Trust me, I was living a fairytale and than I found out he was cheating on me and everything fell apart. It’s not a long list but it helped me (it’s been 23 days).
thank you 😊