He broke up with me after a year. He said he’s never been fully in love with me but that I make him incredibly happy and he’d love to stay he just feels it would be unfair to me.I don’t understand what he’s looking for. It feels like some people confuse real love with the early butterflies and excitement of falling in love.He seemed so happy with me. We never fought everything felt great and he was just as affectionate as he was a year ago. He says we’re incredibly compatible he likes me so much and he really wanted this relationship because of how happy I make him. He admitted he would’ve ended it earlier but I made him so happy that everything about me felt too good to be true.He couldn’t name a single thing he dislikes about me or our relationship or any area where we’re not compatible or where something is missing. According to him it’s just about his feelings. He’s a very honest person.He was so caring and loving (and I was the same with him). He always prioritized me did his best to make me happy and felt my emotions deeply — happy when I was happy sad when I was sad. I genuinely can’t believe he doesn’t love me. I wish I could show videos of how close and loving we were. I think he’s just missing the butterflies and exciting early feelings and is confusing the safe quiet kind of love with “no love.”To anyone who’s been in a similar situation: do you think he might come back?He said he wishes he could stay and he’s open to continuing things but he doesn’t think it’s fair to me when he doesn’t love me the same way and isn’t sure he’d want to marry me.
Last updated on:2026-09-10T05:09:46+05:30
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girl he will come back just because he misses being happy, not you. Make sure you dont accept that piece of garbage
you think you want him back because you believe he truly wants you, or because you still believe he hasn't realized what he had with you?
i wanted my ex to choose the comfort and closeness we had instead of chasing some feeling i couldn't compete with, and eventually i had to accept that i couldn't convince someone to feel more deeply.
being told “you make me so happy, but i don't love you enough” absolutely wrecked me. i kept replaying every good memory trying to find the part where their love disappeared, because everything felt so real to me