so me and my ex was together for 3 years right so we broke up because of his mum not accepting and since that time we had so many ups and downs till the point we broke up and he broke up first then we started going in circles like as exs he kept coming back into my life for a whole year literally we would argue then block each other then start talking again he would break no contact first saying “i miss you i cant do this” bare in mind he broke up with me because of his mum not accepting me well theirs other reasons aswell we started arguing alot because the relationship got really bad after the mother incident but he kept coming back and last month i asked for another chance for the relationship at first “he was like i dont mind being in a relationship because of family” so and so i was like ok but you can atleast try and apparently he tried alot. after that we had an argument i ended up blocking him cuz i was so done i had to give up cuz i tried to save the relationship and give it another shot but ig it didnt work so i had gave up on it i couldnt do it anymore then he sees me at my course place and says to me “i wanna speak to you” i said i dont want to speak im done with this crap then he was like why did you block me this and that i go you clearly know the reason why you asking then he was like how’s everything who do you be speaking to now and i sed its none of your business but he didnt let me go i tried to go back to class he just didnt let me go. then i texted him again about the same situation about saving the relationship but it didnt work out so i left everything to be and gave up. then few days later i see him at my course he ignored me completely. and its been 65 days of no contact but he still stalks me
i seriously dont know anymore he did treat me right first man i ever felt happy with and was myself with he never hurt me he was always loyal and i could trust him he never let me down but this situation haunts me
i still do think about him and have the urge to break no contact but i try my best not too
Last updated on:2026-09-12T21:28:13+05:30
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i keep thinking about him breaking no contact first so many times, then ignoring you when you finally stopped chasing. do you think you miss who he was when you felt happy and completely yourself, or do you still believe there’s a version of this relationship that could actually work despite his family?
i think it could’ve worked if his mother accepted. because we was happy together until we knew that it wasnt going to work because of family
i feel this so much because sometimes the hardest part is knowing they did love you and treated you well, while the relationship still became something you couldn’t keep surviving. i had to stop checking whether my ex was watching me or thinking about me because every little sign made me want to break no contact again.
literally its so hard trying not to break contact
i had an ex who kept coming back too, and every time he said he missed me, i’d start believing maybe THIS time would be different, only to end up right back in the same hurt. 65 days is a long time when your heart still wants to reach for the person who once made you feel safest.