I dont know what to do, where to go, how to see life without him.
it was very easy to break things with me, fucking 8 years of relationship.
what should i do.
he is with someone else now.
i called him for 55 times yesterday. he didnt pick a single call because he was on call with her.
8 years vs. 3 months.
i am so doomed.
Last updated on:2026-09-15T16:49:32+05:30
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girl wth.. youre really strong for that and i feel really bad for you. i really hope you can find yourself again. i also broke up after a long term 2 years almost 3 years relationship. i really loved him and i am trying my best to keep myself busy and meet new people that are worth talking to. i suggest you start seeing new people when youre ready and meanwhile keep your self busy and do things that bring you joy and whenever you wanna talk to him or stalk him do something else that will cost your full attention
are you somewhere safe with someone you trust tonight, and can you stay with them instead of being alone with all of this?
i know that 55 calls came from panic and pain, because i’ve been there too. what helped me was putting the phone in another room for even an hour and letting myself cry instead of chasing someone who had already chosen not to answer.
it’s ok to feel overwhelmed by that. Give yourself space from him for your emotional and mental wellbeing. You’re allowed to feel all those emotions, let it out if you have to. You don’t have to rush to anything or decide anything right now.
when will the suffering end?
I know it feels impossible right now, especially after 8 years. But please stop calling him and give yourself some space. You don’t have to figure out your whole life without him today. Just get through today. The pain is real, but it won’t always feel this unbearable.