She asked to be alone but drops a msg after some days then goes silent again
Asked when my birthday is, and went silent again
I’m genuinely confused here
Last updated on:2026-09-15T23:51:15+05:30
Why is she reaching out and then going silent?
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i’d try not to build a whole meaning around the birthday question. when someone keeps coming back and disappearing, i’ve learned to pay attention to the pattern more than the little moments, because that pattern tells you way more.
it’s just draining dealing with all that
do you feel like she actually wants to reconnect, or does it feel like she’s checking if you’re still there when she misses you?
I feel like she’s checking coz I’ve gone ghost on every social media
those little messages after days of silence can mess with your head so badly. i used to read into every tiny thing my ex did, hoping it meant they were coming back, and the silence afterward hurt even more
the silence is really hurting