Should i text him after a breakup?

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He hasn't written to me all day to see how I'm doing, if I'm okay or anything else.I was thinking why I should do it, but I don't know

Last updated on:2026-09-17T16:03:11+05:30

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Broseph6
Broseph6 3 days ago

if you message him right now and he gives you a dry reply, would that actually make you feel better or leave you hurting even more

angila
angila 4 days ago

ditto in that spot where i stared at my phone all day wondering why he couldn’t send one simple “how are you?” it hurt more than i wanted to admit, because i kept making excuses for someone who wasn’t even checking in.

WavyAndFree748
WavyAndFree748 5 days ago

please don’t do it, it will hurt more i promise you like all the other comments if he wanted to message you he would he doesn’t deserve you and you can do this

Jameslove89
Jameslove89 5 days ago

Don't do it

Benedita22
Benedita22 5 days ago

dont do it please, he is ghosting you, i have been there, dont message him, if he wanted to he would so, just keep on living, doing your thing and let him regrei ghosting you, and when he remembers to text you ignore

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 5 days ago

just remain as well but if you still feel the need to do it, and you are ready for the outcome (maybe silence) then keep it casual

QuickFlex755
QuickFlex755 5 days ago

If he really wants to
he will message you