She texted 'hey, i missed you'—what do i say back?

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She texted “hey I missed you”
How do you respond? knowing you miss her too but don’t want to be desperate or look emotional available or acessible

Last updated on:2026-09-17T23:23:49+05:30

Comments (8)

hillmotion
hillmotion 3 days ago

i learned to wait before answering, even when every part of me wanted to respond instantly. when i finally replied, i kept it honest and simple instead of trying to prove i didn’t care.

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 3 days ago

how did you respond

FRANPW1
FRANPW1 3 days ago

what you actually want from this conversation, do you want her back, or do you just want to know she still misses you too

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 3 days ago

kinda both

Dudely123
Dudely123 3 days ago

i’ve gotten that exact “i miss you” text and felt my whole chest light up while trying to act completely unbothered. i missed her too, BAD, but i knew replying from that rush would put me right back in the same cycle.

BrightSky430
BrightSky430 4 days ago

if your relationship was toxic then ignore her

Gracia
Gracia 4 days ago

The real question is: why did she come back?

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 4 days ago

how would you respond to find out