Why can't i move on from my first love?

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I really loved this girl. We broke up a few weeks ago because I was going long distance and she was dealing with a. lot already. I can’t get her out of my head. I saw she is already with a new guy that is able to support her. But she tells me to keep fighting for her because we could still be together. I really want it to be her. I don’t know if I should keep hurting while I fight or try and let go

Last updated on:2026-09-17T18:07:11+05:30

Comments (4)

Dudely123
Dudely123 3 days ago

i’d listen to what she’s doing as much as what she’s saying.

FRANPW1
FRANPW1 3 days ago

if she’s with someone new but asking you to keep fighting for her, what would she actually need to change for you to feel like you’re fighting for a real relationship instead of just holding onto hope?

triphex3
triphex3 3 days ago

first love hurts in a way i wasn’t ready for either. i remember watching someone i loved move toward someone else while still telling me there might be a chance, and i felt stuck between hope and heartbreak every damn day

TurboDash992
TurboDash992 3 days ago

This is exactly how I feel and I don’t know if I should keep holding onto that hope