I made it to 90 days. Thought it would feel better. Ever since I unblocked in one area...How did he even notice?...and he reached out with zero accountability and hatered. Then started posting pics of them together and declaring love. i dont know. i just feel stuck. He moved on before leaving our relationship with an EX. I, of course did not respond and put block back on. i just feel stuck in sadness and anger. 6 months since break up and 90 days no contact. I was doing so well but since that contact he made...I go in n out of the emotions. I've recently started chatting with a man and have first date this weekend. We have not spoken about this at all and I dont want to. I just am really trying to figure out how i am going to trust love again. i want to have a loyal partner who can be trusted and understand how I need to be loved and how they need to be loved.
Last updated on:2026-09-18T17:36:12+05:30
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i’d try not to make this new man prove that love is safe right away. i once went on a date while still carrying so much hurt, and what helped was letting it be just one date, no promises, no pressure to trust completely before trust had been earned.
i really feel the fear behind wanting a loyal partner who understands how you need to be loved. do you think you’re afraid this new man might hurt you too, or are you still trying to make sense of how easily your ex seemed to replace you?
hitting a milestone i thought would finally make me feel free, then one message from my ex dragged all the anger and sadness right back up. seeing him show off someone else after giving me zero accountability would’ve wrecked me too