Why does she miss me after the breakup?

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she texted me again today and still said she misses me and I asked what does she miss about me and she said everything and us
What to do

Last updated on:2026-09-20T08:48:11+05:30

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Odysseus7
Odysseus7 13 hrs ago

i’d slow down before giving her an answer, honestly.

Gaming95
Gaming95 19 hrs ago

i feel like there’s a lot behind her saying “everything,” but what did she actually say she wants from you now, does she want to try again or does she just miss what you two had?

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 19 hrs ago

she didn’t say anything else, just that
i didnt want to pressure by asking since she brought it up herself so I let it be

Nobody22
Nobody22 23 hrs ago

that “i miss you” text can mess with your head so badly, especially when you still have feelings. i remember hearing “i miss everything about us” and suddenly forgetting all the reasons we broke up.

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 19 hrs ago

I feel you

Eaglet
Eaglet yesterday

I would ask her what changed? Some people try to reconcile when the original problem hasn't been addressed.

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 yesterday

I didn’t go deeper into it to ask or bring up the relationship
since she was the one who initiated it, I let it be to see if she’ll be consistent with it or it was just in the moment

SweetSun699
SweetSun699 2 days ago

The exact same thing happened to me yesterday, and I almost fell apart, but I stood by my “no.” Today I woke up and I’ve been fighting with my thoughts all day, but deep down I’m proud of myself for managing to turn down getting back together. We have to think about ourselves and what’s best for us. I don’t want someone to miss me just because they miss having someone who loves them. I want someone to love me for who I am, or I’d rather be alone. That’s the whole point. Think about yourself.

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 18 hrs ago

you’re amazing for that