Why stopping the chase can lead to surprising texts

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when you stop chasing, most of them text out of curiosity to find out why the dynamic has changed and trust me that’s a win for you….learned that the hard way and equally saw the results when they were the ones initiating contact after asking for space

Last updated on:2026-09-20T18:06:31+05:30

Comments (5)

Dimension2
Dimension2 3 hrs ago

when they texted after asking for space, did you actually want them back, or did it just feel good knowing they came looking for you?

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 2 hrs ago

I wanted them back but had to deal with my own emotions first and stop chasing

eMinGy
eMinGy 10 hrs ago

Its hard going from daily contact and closeness to waiting there initiation.

Bbryant573
Bbryant573 12 hrs ago

I am finding this is very hard to do, I see posts that describes how he acted which describes how I feel and I can't help but send them to him.

BlazeJet296
BlazeJet296 17 hrs ago

this is so true learned from experience ladies