Me a month ago: OH MY GOD!!! I'm going to miss his birthday party!!! Oh GOD THIS SUCKS!!! ðŸ˜
Me now: The SAME birthday party where he ALLOWED his friends to make fun of me for working with kids? Where he didn't defend me or tell them to knock it off?! Yeah...No thanks! 🤮
Last updated on:2026-09-27T01:52:13+05:30
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i used to romanticize the plans and birthdays so much that i forgot how i was treated at them. now when i miss something, i try to remember the whole picture, especially the moments where i felt disrespected.
i’ve had that exact shift where i went from desperately wanting to be included to remembering WHY i felt so small around my ex. looking back at the things i once cried over and realizing i actually don’t want them anymore feels wild.
i love this kind of progress 😂 do you feel more relieved now, or are there still moments where you catch yourself missing the version of him you wanted him to be?
I feel more relieved, especially since I'm not going. I do catch myself grieving sometimes, but how je treated me at the end showed me who he really was.