Its been 1,5 month and I still think about it. The good times, the way he handled things when he ended our relationship, how he fumbled me and how deep for me everything was and still is.
I learned from a friend that he was recently talking to a girl for few days, who only liked him and bought tickets to go to a concert with her in another country !!! Nothing else booked. It doesn't even make sense. He then ghosted her and he's trying to find someone else to go with... It tells me everything I need to know for this person. I will overthink it, though...
I realize it isn't personal and it doesn't have to do with my worth and that he was actually trying to get away from his problematic behaviour, because he isn't communicating, mature, accountable. But it hurts to think that i might be emotionally forgotten now, when I still care so much
Last updated on:2026-09-28T05:36:11+05:30
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this hurt to read because i know that exact sick feeling in your stomach. i remember finding out my ex was already out there making wild, reckless moves with random girls barely a month after dumping me, and it made me feel like our entire history meant NOTHING to him. it feels like a total slap in the face when you are still sitting here carrying all the weight of what you lost.
I’m in a similiar place he was texting me and saying he had someone else just to hurt me and saying she was doing things for him that didn’t it’s just sad and sick and I know mentally he isn’t ok but I can’t keep worrying about that just like you can’t. They do it because they’re miserable with themselves I finally blocked social media and blocked the phone and it was so hard but it’s helped
Yeah I can't stop thinking about me place in his life. I wanna remove and unfollow him but I don't feel ready yet. I feel a bit dumb when I post though, because he watches my stories and I eant him to do it but he doesn't care...
@didou i honestly it might mess with his ego if you do and then maybe he’ll realize your letting go and possibly ignite something inside him. And when I did I felt so much better and empowered like I took my power back
what finally gave me some peace was forcing myself to stop asking mutual friends for updates about him. every little piece of information you hear is just going to spiral you back into overthinking, and keeping yourself in the dark actually lets you heal.
This is true... She fully supports me and wanted to help me understand that he's not okay and I deserve better, but I'm an overthinker so yeah...
knowing he is out there acting this chaotic make it any easier to see that he was never going to be the mature partner you deserved?
that's so so so true. I'm jut worried about me atp.What was I in his mind? He makes me anxious and he's not in my life anymore.
you just need time ❤️🩹 time gonna heal you, it’s gonna pass 🫶some people just can’t stand themselves, it’s why they are keep swapping people so fast 💕
thank you for the kind words... I feel so confused and hurt right now