so basically I post on my tiktok story a lot and we were texting again but he said idk when I asked if he lives me like typed idk not I don't know not yes not no but idk so I blocked him to give him more space and he acts like he hates me at school but he is always looking at me and staring at me and he views my friends and my story in tiktok but when I try to contact him he ignores me but when I attempt to get over him he stalks me on everything and stares at me I don't know what to do.
Last updated on:2026-10-15T04:39:48+05:30
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my ex used to do the exact same thing, ignore my texts for days and then be the FIRST person to view my story the second i posted, and it kept me hooked on crumbs for months. watching him stare at school while active on your page just keeps you stuck in a loop of trying to decode someone who is choosing not to show up for you.
yes today at school while I'm fca he kept looking at me and acting like he wasn't and like I don't mean to look at him it's like I zone out and start looking around And I see him looking at me like why act like you don't care and say idk if I love you if your going to stalk me
if he wants to give you "idk" when you ask if he loves you, he doesn't get the privilege of lurking on your daily moves while ignoring your texts.
your friends letting him use their accounts to view your stuff, or is he just openly watching everything you post?
he is just openly stalking me and my friends
I’m sorry babe but are you guys dating?
no we were dating them I broke up with him over something stupid then I was apologizing and asking to get back together and he was like no and started being really mean to me for no reason and then a few weeks ago we started talking again and he apologized for how he acted towards me and said he wasn't fully out of depression and didn't want to hurt me and I said after we broke up your hurt me more then when we were dating and he was like then she can we wait for each other because his parents didn't want us together and they were saying stuff to him and he wanted us to be together when we get older and I was like yeah so does that mean you still love me or no and he said idk so I was like so you don't know if you live me now but you wanna love me later and he was like I never said that and i was like you basically did and then he left me on open so I blocked him and gave him space and now he won't talk to me but he slaks me and my friends and idk what to do about it and I need help
@ChillFlick147 baby girl, that was one of the main reason my relationship ended too.. his family was against us because of tribe issue.. the disturbed him a lot, he broke up with me twice and still asked to get back together and I did everytime because I loved him but he changed. I didn’t feel loved again and he started hiding his phone and talking to other girls that are his tribe so imagine how that made me feel. if his family don’t want you, and he is not giving you the clarity you need to even stay strong and fight, please leave! for your own sanity, please 🙏.. he is not going to treat you well because he will listen to his family
@ChillFlick147 and him saying idk is not only disrespectful but that is what you need to be able to move on.. he isn’t sure about you and he is openly saying it to you. if him stalking you makes you uncomfortable, please block him and delete him. he knows what he is doing and apparently it’s working. don’t let him get to you, block him and don’t post for him to see
@Rubyjanenelly thank you I have been ignoring him and I have blocked him on everything but tiktok but I barley look at tiktok only when I post which isn't often but I have been doing good on ignoring him and moving on but I think he is jealous because I have been talking to this guy David he is super sweet but nothing is going on with us...
@ChillFlick147 girl, I’m talking to a guy named David too.. there’s nothing going on between us but there’s definitely something there. although we don’t talk anymore. long story, David has been in my life since high school, we have been friends ever since but I know he has feelings for me and I won’t deny I did have feelings at a point cause he was my first love.. I got heartbroken by my last relationship and I ran to David but we are too toxic, it’s exhausting! I had to tell him to just leave me alone cause he was draining me and I was draining him too and I don’t want to rush into anything right now