this weekend all i could think about was him and my stress with work i never thought that stress at work is also a trigger to miss him so much?
i was soooooo tired and stressed and my usual reflex was to vent to him. then right after the problem at work was solved i started being back to myself and missing him less?
thats so weird but its good to know that pattern
Last updated on:2026-10-06T03:55:11+05:30
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whenever work got overwhelming, my brain used to reach for my ex before i even realized i was doing it, like he was still my first call when life got heavy.
i started catching that pattern too, and it helped me pause before assuming i was suddenly missing the relationship again. sometimes i was just exhausted and craving the comfort i used to get from him.
I’ve had the same thing happen too, once I realised that I wanted to talk to him, it almost felt like it clicked in my head that I can never talk to him again and my mind started grieving the idea of my person being gone. I wish us the best of the best
i’ve had this happen with stress too, and now i’m curious, do you miss him most when you’re overwhelmed, or do you miss having someone to tell everything to?