Why did he lose feelings? my breakup story

so I just broke up 2 days ago and it's been really hard. the reason we broke up is because he told him he started losing feelings for me. I was once his princess. I feel that this break up is because of me. I became really needy. well that's because I am unemployed and I have so much time that I started overthinking. I want to feel better

Last updated on:2026-10-12T01:00:12+05:30

Comments (9)

CapableEmu
CapableEmu 4 wks ago

two days is so fresh, and going from being his princess to hearing he’s losing feelings must hurt like hell 💔 i blamed myself for being too needy after my breakup too, but i was just scared of losing someone i loved so much.

Exotic22
Exotic22 4 wks ago

girl, i know you want to feel better right now. when i was unemployed after my breakup, i had way too much time to replay every little thing in my head. i started with tiny things that gave my day some structure, even when i didn't feel like doing anything.

Majestic22
Majestic22 4 wks ago

i feel for you, especially when you're blaming yourself for being needy. 🥺 do you feel like you were asking him for too much, or were you needing more attention because you felt him pulling away?

DreamyStar576
DreamyStar576 4 wks ago

he kept pulling away and I sensed it. so I was scared he will stop loving me and eventually my fears did come true

NeonCrest341
NeonCrest341 4 wks ago

honestly I didn’t
I cried I curled up in bed

it took me a while to learn that this is good for me, just keep yours self busy do so much go to the gym run. cook watch something

if you have family around maybe go stay with them

DreamyStar576
DreamyStar576 4 wks ago

nothing I am doing isn't working. I don't go to the gym. I live with my sister who goes to work all day so I am practically alone all day

DreamyStar576
DreamyStar576 4 wks ago

I cried so hard being god to take this pain away and how unfair it is to me

NeonCrest341
NeonCrest341 4 wks ago

hi dreamstar I was with a guy for 10 years toxic cycle of ups and downs he suddenly started seeing another girl and decided to end things with me, I understand being loved and treated like a princess would’ve been great and to go from that to this sucks but trust me, it gets better and SO much better ❤️

DreamyStar576
DreamyStar576 4 wks ago

how did u deal with it. the break up. give me suggestions or ideas so it gets easier