I can’t stop thinking about my ex even though he treated me so badly I was still in love with him

I can’t stop thinking about my ex even though he treated me so badly I was still in love with him. Had to block him on everything tho cuz it takes every ounce of me not to reach out. He’s not good for me. I’ve tried everything to distract myself from his attempts to hit me up even started the small biz I always wanted but it didn’t work. Had a breakdown tonight. What can I do to keep myself busy? Already binged my comfort show in 2 weeks ? there’s more to it but right now I just need help with this

Last updated on:2025-02-21T15:39:14+05:30

Comments (11)

TrendON
TrendON 1 y ago

I just wanna be there with my wife and kids like do anything you know? Just to feel something from them like how you feel too

Downlover
Downlover 1 y ago

He wants you to hit him up. Respond and you'll hear just how much he's feeling you

ellectromua

Tell him what tho? I already tried that too

NinoLovw
NinoLovw 1 y ago

C is this you?

ellectromua

no

AlianMoha
AlianMoha 1 y ago

feel it to heal it the longer you avoid it the longer it takes. wishing you the best 🫶🏻 hit me up if you wanna talk

ellectromua

yeah i get that part of me doesn't wanna let go either... sometimes it’s easier to just avoid it all

AlianMoha
AlianMoha 1 y ago

@ellectromua Letting go ain't the same as giving up on love! It feels easy at first, but it'll hit different a few months down the line.

ellectromua

@AlianMoha I know you're right :( thanks

VictorJO
VictorJO 1 y ago

don't fight it just feel whatever you're feeling if you miss him that's normal let it happen don't push it away just let it flow it'll take time

ellectromua

😭 I’m avoidant it’s kinda my thing lol but thanks