Been like 5 months since I last talked to this girl I had a thing with

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Been like 5 months since I last talked to this girl I had a thing with. It wasn’t some years long thing but I really liked her fr. Liked her so much I was even down to wait for her to be ready. She swore she loved and cared about me then outta nowhere switched up while I was at my highest. Found out through someone else she went back to her ex and honestly that was all the closure I needed to dip and forget everything.
Started hitting the gym again after a break and I look way better now. But tbh I’m still not fully over it. It’s not even about missing her it’s just the fact that I got played and tossed aside for someone else. Like am I always gonna deal with this? Still think about it a lot and ngl a big part of why I’m pushing myself to improve is cuz of it. How long does it actually take to fully move on? Do you ever stop caring completely?

Last updated on:2025-03-25T17:48:14+05:30

Comments (8)

KeepitSaral

The time that it takes to Move on is actually a mental state where you learn to live in state where any thoughts, feelings or memories of her don't bother.When someone treats us and victimized, it really hurts our Ego and the best way to move on is leave that person that you were entirely.With that personality,your memories of her will also go.

BogoBeb
BogoBeb 1 y ago

The universe will send you someone who matches your energy.

Girrishamohe

You'll find someone who actually appreciates you.

Bosslady
Bosslady 1 y ago

Honestly the disrespect is what stings right?

Maplinm
Maplinm 1 y ago

Five months and still feeling it? That's valid.

ProffPPD
ProffPPD 1 y ago

Glow-up revenge is a whole mood, though.

itsFullo
itsFullo 1 y ago

Oof, ghosted and replaced?

goldenheart

There’s no set number tbh just hope you get amnesia like me and forget her eventually