So I broke up with my ex back in October due to some hurtful things he said to me yet him and his mom both are expecting me to reach out to them when I’m ready, shouldn’t he have to reach out to me since he’s the one that made mistakes?
Last updated on:2025-06-25T05:23:02+05:30
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You’re spot on. Accountability is key it’s not fair for them to expect you to make the first move. Protect your peace
You’re not wrong at all. If he’s the one who messed up he should be the one reaching out. You deserve someone who takes responsibility
Exactly It’s not your responsibility to fix things when you were the one hurt. Let him show he’s willing to make amends.
100% It’s not your job to chase after someone who hurt you. If he truly cares he’ll make the effort to make things right.
Exactly If he made the mistakes the ball is in his court. You’re not obligatd to fix what you didn’t break.
Absolutely agree. If he’s the one who caused the pain it’s on him to take the first step.
You’re absolutely right. If he’s the one who caused the hurt it’s on him to take accountability and reach out. You deserve effort not expectations.
I agree, he said back in March “a relationship is a two way street so I’m going to need you and your mom reach out to me and my mom when and if you’re ready to work things out”. He’s a big mommas boy and was coddled his whole life.
@ChillOut75 aaaah one of 'em momma's boys. i know those kinds. hectic!
@KGrant and stressful too, I still feel drained.