really struggling today

really struggling today, was hoping by now we would be back together after 8 years together. does anyone else hold on to hope? how do I stop

Last updated on:2025-07-04T08:47:38+05:30

Comments (12)

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 y ago

No. I have finally accepted that it's over and I need to move on. I'm not going to beg someone to be with me. I deserve better and so do you.

LiamBoma
LiamBoma 1 y ago

I’ve been there it’s so hard. What helped me was reminding myself that I deserve someone who chooses me fully.

CozyVibe788

I AM because how can you just forget someone you know for so long🫠 I'm hoping he come back but I'm not going to reach out anymore 😌

CozyVibe788

I AM because how can you just forget someone you know for so long🫠 I'm hoping he come back but I'm not going to reach out anymore 😌

Sivalotuk
Sivalotuk 1 y ago

It’s normal to hold on to hope but sometimes it keeps us stuck. Journaling has helped me process those feelings.

Nilombo
Nilombo 1 y ago

You’re not alone in feeling this way. It’s okay to grieve but try to take small steps toward letting go

Kunchyeh
Kunchyeh 1 y ago

I totally get it it’s hard to stop hoping. Focusing on myself and my goals has helped me move forward.

katieBurton

thank you so much think ill set some goals

Dobbiwak
Dobbiwak 1 y ago

It’s tough to let go after so many years. I try to remind myself that holding on only delays my healing.

katieBurton

thank you

Somanna
Somanna 1 y ago

Holding on to hope is so hard I’ve been there.

katieBurton

how did you stop?