Is it right to leave my partner because he didn't change?

Is it right to leave my partner because he didn't change? Me and my partner have been together for 1 and a half years and we constantly fight.. And usually.. it's because of him.. Everytime, he Always promises that he'll change.. recently we have been stuck in a loop of Him doing something wrong, I confront him, He gets defensive, I get angry, I block him, I wish for him to reach out and say sorry.., I miss him, I ended up being the one to apologize.

Last updated on:2025-07-15T05:20:03+05:30

Comments (8)

momosea
momosea 1 y ago

It’s not wrong to leave if you feel stuck in a loop. You deserve a relationship that feels healthy and supportive.

roastmind
roastmind 1 y ago

I’ve been there and it’s so draining. Sometimes walking away is the best way to find peace.

Jissaboe
Jissaboe 1 y ago

You’ve given him chances but change has to come from him. Don’t feel guilty for wanting better for yourself

Simmubida
Simmubida 1 y ago

It’s hard to leave but if the cycle keeps repeating maybe it’s time to prioritize your happiness.

realangel
realangel 1 y ago

exhausting u deserve someone who listens and makes an effort to grow with you

Angrydresser

It’s okay to want more for yourself. If he’s not willing to change you have to think about what’s best for your peace

BraveHug99
BraveHug99 1 y ago

Yes, you are doing the right thing. I know it hurts, but if he wanted to change, he would. My partner was the same way. Every time I thought he would change, he didn’t. You shouldn’t have to waste your life waiting around for him to get better. You deserve better

Unhealed
Unhealed 1 y ago

Either he doesn't want to change or he doesn't know how to change. My partner left me after 7 years because I didn't change. But I didn't know what to do to change. Now I'm getting help so I can do better and be better.