Day 3 Post Break Up: I don’t know what to do because so much reminds me of him and getting out of the house just seems like too much

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Day 3 Post Break Up: I don’t know what to do because so much reminds me of him and getting out of the house just seems like too much. So far I have gathered a lot of his stuff up and split into boxes of stuff to give back to him vs. stuff that reminds me of him, I’ve moved all the pictures of him/us into a hidden folder, and I rearranged my bedroom because that is where he broke my heart, the morning after driving 7 hours to spend the weekend with me. I still miss him so much and I am still hoping that he comes back to me.

Last updated on:2025-07-25T02:17:03+05:30

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Kiilavio21
Kiilavio21 11 mths ago

day 3 is brutal. everything still smells like them. feels like them. i used to whisper “please come back” into my pillow. every night. you’re not crazy. you’re grieving love.

smanth603
smanth603 11 mths ago

rearranging your room is brave as hell. i couldn't even touch my bedsheets for days. just laid there in the mess.

EasthamLover
EasthamLover 11 mths ago

yeah i got new bedding and everything because he began our break up conversation while we were in my bed still so i wanted to take back my safe space because he hurt me so deeply in my old space

KGrant
KGrant 11 mths ago

i felt this in my chest. that “still hoping he comes back” part… yeah. i remember folding up his hoodie like it was sacred or something. it’s wild how our hearts hold on even when they’re shattered.

hofndsiso
hofndsiso 11 mths ago

I'm really sorry for you I hope you two get back together soon