I still feel guilty and jst all over the place that I chose to break it off

i wanted to text him SO BAD. like just i miss you. but i knew i’d be the one picking up the pieces again after. stay soft. but stay strong.

i get it. i broke it off and still cried every damn day. doesn’t mean it wasn’t the right thing.

i remember this exact feeling. like your chest wants both — to stay and to protect you. i missed him so much i thought it meant i made the wrong choice… but it didn’t. missing someone and keeping your boundary can both be true.

respect your boundaries for yourself, and he doesn't want to talk to you because if he did he would've done something about it because he is the man

a good question to ask urself is "do i miss him? or do i just miss the connection?" we meet and connect with people all our lives, and you're bound to connect with someone else, it might not be the same, but it can definitely be stronger

I wanna msg him so bad, but I’m scared. I really am scared that I’ll feel like a burden again:(

hatemyself44 1 y ago

if you feel like it just go for it, it’s better to live without regrets of not doing something.. But do it carefully and nicely if that’s what you really want. Wishing the best <3

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