should I try to contact with him?

should I try to contact with him?

Last updated on:2025-08-14T02:55:10+05:30

Comments (22)

culture1
culture1 1 y ago

day 5 is when the urge shows up the most. it’s the part where you start wondering if silence is permanent.

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

We have been separated for a month and a half.

Nilombo
Nilombo 1 y ago

i know that pull. i felt it too. sometimes the quiet after no contact feels louder than the breakup.

romentica
romentica 1 y ago

i remember thinking maybe if i reached out he’d see what he lost. all it did was remind me why i left.

AlexHadADay

Contacting him will most likely give you an answer that you don't want to hear. I've broke mine with my ex, ended up getting blocked on every app. If it was now me, I would just wait and observe even if it hurts so much, I know it does.

HOAX1977
HOAX1977 1 y ago

im feeling the same. I want to contact him to get a decent closure . 20 days blocked I don't know why...

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

what should we do

HOAX1977
HOAX1977 1 y ago

@DuskVibe48 everyone says do not contact. 🥺. if he isn't reaching is because he doesn't care.. I'm aware.. but then I think maybe he cares but he's emotionally unavailable. I don't know 😔

letitgo_user

no dont contact him stay strong and put yourself first

EchoLight10

even though it hurts now to stay one day ur gonna thank urself for it ur gonna thank the version of u that’s happy because u were able to move on better and quicker because of not reaching out to him I believe in ur strength to do this it’s a battle every day but it’s a battle u should and will win

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

thank you girl

mansiiii
mansiiii 1 y ago

BLOCK HIM GIRL!!! IF HE WANTED TOO HE WOULD BUT HE DIDN'T!!!! SO WHY YOU

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

We’ve been separated for a month and a half because of me, and in the past few days, there have been two situations where he tried to get closer to me but in an indirect way. Do you think he will message me?

mansiiii
mansiiii 1 y ago

NO

hatemyself44

depends on the situation tbh.

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do?

hatemyself44

@DuskVibe48 if you feel like you want to then do it, but do it without any hopes up and not getting any response you like. but if he tried to close to you it could mean something… It’s your choice of what you wanna do atp…

Marshmallow

No. don't do it

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do?

Marshmallow

@DuskVibe48 Dont contact him. it will hurt more when he doesnt reciprocate the energy. it will leave you hopeful that you guys will get back together. it's not worth the pain. you're setting back your healing. if he wants to come back, let him do that on his own. but don't reach out.

DuskVibe48
DuskVibe48 1 y ago

@Marshmallow I'm afraid I'm the only one who has hope of coming back.

Marshmallow

@DuskVibe48 focus on yourself my angel. you're going to hurt more trying to get his attention.