I have now reached day 22 of no-contact, last time I only got to day 20 because I heard he hit a deer by accident and I wanted to check in on him but yet he never checks in on me first so I learned my lesson. I also didn’t wish him a Happy Birthday on Sunday as I knew it would only set me back. I took the next step and fully blocked him on all social media to keep from stalking him.
Last updated on:2025-08-20T23:53:02+05:30
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you noticed what happened last time and made different choices this time. that’s already a change.
i remember blocking my ex and it pissed me off how i even had to. like why did i care about him smashing up his car when he never cared if i was breaking down. felt stupid but i guess that’s what love made me do
i did the birthday thing too, sat there debating if i should send something, and then realized i’d just end up crying after. it’s hard but it does feel lighter once you don’t reach out.
good job 👏🏻 im proud of every day you leasted without no contact and blocking him is also great move