it's day 20 i can't imagine myself being with someone else is not him

Author

it's day 20 i can't imagine myself being with someone else is not him. a guy asked to hang out ik it's nothing but even tho it's nothing im really not excited at all or anything it on Monday should i go guys? pls help me

Last updated on:2025-08-21T23:10:38+05:30

Comments (16)

Kiyara
Kiyara 11 mths ago

right now you sound like you’re trying to convince yourself either way. doesn’t matter what happens monday, you’re still on day 20 of missing him.

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

you think should i go on Monday?

Dipssi
Dipssi 11 mths ago

saying yes to plans when i wasn’t ready. it didn’t feel exciting but i still went just to get out of the house. nothing magical happened but it wasn’t terrible either.

brainless
brainless 11 mths ago

i went on a date 3 weeks after my breakup. whole time i was just staring at him thinking why isn’t it my ex sitting here. i couldn’t even eat my food.

Unhealed
Unhealed 11 mths ago

I feel the exact same way. It's been 3 months for me. I won't be ready to date for a long time.

AlexHadADay
AlexHadADay 11 mths ago

I feel like that too, I just can't talk with other girls, it feels like cheating, but I m not together with her anymore tho. Go out, explore, enjoy yourself. Even if it doesn't go well, at least you can get an ideea what you can work on. I believe in you🙌

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

yeah that is the thing it's feels like cheating, thanks tho this really helps

DropVibe4
DropVibe4 11 mths ago

yeah that is the thing it's feels like cheating, thanks tho this really helps

AlexHadADay
AlexHadADay 11 mths ago

@DropVibe4 i know, i try to get out of that habit and still talk to them even if it feels wrong, but keeping it to a level i m comfortable to. It gets better with practice