He broke up with me last Tuesday with a text message

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He broke up with me last Tuesday with a text message. Yesterday I asked him if he could talk to me in person about it and he said he was confused and needed some time. I need answers.

Last updated on:2025-08-23T21:42:18+05:30

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Jmkin
Jmkin 10 mths ago

like you reached out wanting closure and he gave you a pause instead. that pause can feel worse than the breakup itself.

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 10 mths ago

You believe that one day he will talk to me? and give me the closure I asked for?

farawayme
farawayme 10 mths ago

i remember begging my ex to just talk face to face. he kept dodging and saying he wasn’t sure what he wanted. it hurt because i thought if he could just explain, i’d feel better. i never got the answers i hoped for.

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 10 mths ago

I’m sorry to hear that. Now I don’t know if I have the same hope as today’s morning. Maybe he will never explain to me. That hurts

catwasakii
catwasakii 10 mths ago

dont chase, dont beg, let him do what he needs. even leave him alone for a week set a goal of im not gonna message him for x days. because unfortunately the tighter you squeeze the less you have

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 10 mths ago

Thanks for the advice, I will follow it
Hope he text me again and thank the thinks in person
But for now, I’m going to set myself this goal

catylove
catylove 10 mths ago

i got dumped in a text too. sat there staring at my phone like that was all i was worth. later he said he was "confused" too. it just dragged out and nothing real ever came from it.

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 10 mths ago

Yeah, I thought the same, did I worth just a little to you to be treated like that?
Did you continue being friends or you don't talk anymore? bc he said eventually we could be friends, that he just "needs a little of time"